One of the biggest hurdles when you are getting into a relationship when you are trans. There have been too many times that my friends and I have lost our relationships because people who figured they would be cool with everything ended up not being so. Often people will start treating you differently after the first time you fool around or sleep with each other. It definitely makes things stressful surrounding the first time, and unfortunately you just have to wait to see how everything works out, so the next little while is often pretty stressful.
So, if you ever date a trans person who doesn’t have the… Generally considered “typical” parts, please make sure you understand what that means. It really sucks to start falling for you and then end up losing you because we can’t be treated properly, and it happens way too often.
Thank you for taking the time to read this sunshines. Have a beautiful day.